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The role of a father for a girl: only dad can teach

“I do

not envy you when they all grow up,” “How did you deserve such happiness?"," Yes, brother, you are surrounded ". Our hero, the father of four girls, hears these phrases every day and does not understand those who say so, because being the father of the girl is a special privilege. Here are his advice to other fathers.

1. She wants you to love her

More than a million different girls that she asks you and which you, of course, buy her. She may not ask: “Dad, you love me?" - but this is the main thing that she needs. This is the role of the father.

A daughter can upset you, she can make mistakes and even once turn her back to you, but never make her doubt her love. Look into her eyes and tell her that. Do it today and do not forget to repeat every day.

2. Listen to her music

When all my four girls are in the car, Taylor Swift, Katy Perry, Lana Del Rey sing in it - in general, none of those whom I would listen if I was driving alone. With one exception - I love Taylor Swift. But if this music lights them, we light together!

3. She carefully watches how you feel about her mother

If you do not have time to read the entire list, read only this item, it is the most important. The best of what you can do for your daughter is to love her mother. It is easy to devote life to a child: you can live by her circles, study, sophosporces, go from class to class with her. But listen to my advice - fight for your marriage, make it a priority.

Those periods of life, when I stopped going on dates with Brooke, my wife, did not make her meetings only for us two were at the same time the most difficult and problematic periods in our children's life. I don't think it's accidental. Find the time for joint trips together, show the children that your wife is a priority for you and that you are two people in love with each other who have such wonderful children who have been born precisely.

4. Do not retreat into the shadow when it grows up

Boyfriends, experiences because of appearance, chats until midnight-no matter what happens, my girls will not see how I am moving away from their problems only because they have grown and their body has changed. Paternal love goes with a lifelong guarantee. And I will support my daughters at fifteen years old as I supported when they were five years old.

5. You influence what guys she will choose

Once she wants to marry someone who will love her just like you. And our youngest daughter says that he will marry me when he grows up. And only her father can tell her that he is already married to her beautiful mother, and she will have the same loving family with someone who will love her just as I love her wife, her mother.

6. Teach her to push up

My girls are definitely not weak, like their mother. They play sports and do not understand what it means to "throw the ball as a girl". They believe that this is such a compliment. And besides physical strength and endurance, we educate them with perseverance and stamina: they will come in handy in life better than pink dresses and fairy tales about princesses.

7. Create family memory and history

In my family, I am jokingly called the "main keeper". I don't mind. You know why? I know that I still have 50-60 years left on this earth. Not so little, but not very much. Therefore, I want to create as many memorable moments as possible and leave the girls memories of myself.

We celebrate big events, such as “The first journey, when you are already 10 years old”, but we also have small family holidays, which we are very seriously related. Family film offices on Fridays, big breakfast on Saturdays, hiking to the mountains on Sunday. The role of the father is to fill their travel magazine with memories of what they did together. This memory will give them strength in difficult times.